My Elder Sister has been engaged to this man for about 5 years now and
then people have been complaining about their long term relationship.
Even my mum at some point embrassrased the him when he comes looking for
my sister, he promised her marriage but has not done anything about it
since then.
when I asked my sister she said he is saving and
planning towards their marriage but this same man has been living with
his friend in a room since I knew him even though he has been working
since I knew.
At some point becos of age (32) was no longer at my
elder sisters side , my mum decided to give them one of her flats to
leave in her 2 storey building house. my elder sister and my mum
ultimately financed the wedding preparation even to the point of buying
his own cloths for his own wedding and while her fiance's brother
supported him with 250k for the wedding since he just lost his job last
December.
Now what baffles me is that my sister appears to be the
man while he is the woman in their relationship since I knew then,
although I have always adviced my sister to be submissive to him and
stop shouting and controlling her fiance. I noticed so many faults in
him like not standing up to my sister to prove to her his the man in
their relationship which is clear to everyone.
Now just three
days to their traditional marriage I was discussing with him and he was
bad mouthing my elder sister to me and he later told me "not to tell my
elder sister ooo". I pretended to take what he was saying as a joke but
deep in my heart, I feel my elder sister is about to marry a man she
barely even knows.
pls whats your I opinion about this?
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