You know the thing about lies? It always hunts you. It is never a good
thing to lie. The consequences of lying is always way more than anyone
perceives them to be.
Here are the things Nigerian women need to never lie to men about ever again.
This an AGE long issue
This
particular issue baffles me, as I still do not understand why it is
difficult to tell your age. Remember not to lie about your age prior to
the relationship or even at any moment. If he is interested, age won’t
matter, if you’re insecure about revealing your age, it would only make
him doubt you and once he doubts you on this, he will very easily doubt
you on something else. Keep it transparent with the birth dates.
The amount of people you have had sex with
Most
women would disagree with telling their current partner how many sexual
partners they have had (I think women are wired to lie about that). But
if you hide your past intimacy with your ex, he will get skeptical. If
you’re open about it and tell him exactly as it is before the
relationship, he will always trust you. A big no no is to bring up their
past sex lives in the middle of a relationship, that just breaks all
bundaries of trust and ultimately the relationship itself.
If you
have been intimate with more guys than you can admit, here is an
advise; pray the question never comes up or just let him know you cannot
let him know (goodluck).
When it comes to cooking…
You
do know he will taste your food some day right? Don’t even bother lying
about it. Most women think it is highly important if they pose as a
good cook when they can’t make a decent meal. Don’t promise him Pounded
yam and vegetable soup or even exotic dishes when you do not even know
the right ingredients or how to put them together. It’s fine if a woman
can’t cook properly, both of you are together to better each other in
every walk of life. Contrary to what the world turned women to, we are
not made to live by the fire side. But if you lie about it, it can very
well cost you in the future.
Stop drowning your face in make-up
Don’t
get me wrong, It’s okay to cover yourself in make-up and to act the way
he wants you to but to a certain extent. Don’t do it every time, please
let your face breathe a little too . He loves you for who you are not
for who you’re trying to be. Guys love nothing more than a lady who’s
true to herself and then to them. Keep it real, ladies, show us your
real face (sometimes o).
I do not need your money
You
think I wanna drive your Benz, well I do! Love is free, it is the
maintenance that is expensive. Even if a woman doesn’t need your money
or ask you for it, Trust me, she wants you to have it. Just to say her
man is caked up. It is a matter of prestige so girls you do not need to
lie to him, instead motivate him to be more hard working and make more
money.
Stop lying about his sexual performance
If
he is bad and he asks you, tell him the truth but remember to sugar
coat it o. Men always like to ask about their sexual performance, I
think it has to do with their ego. So, if you know you want your
relationship to last make sure not to crush his ego and not lie at the
same time (goodluck).
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