Five People That Can Ruin Your Wedding Ceremony

FIVE PEOPLE THAT CAN RUIN YOUR WEDDING CEREMONY

(1)YOUR ACTION ,THEN YOUR PASTOR -
It was on Saturday, the D day when all were set and spirit was high for guests to see the union of their loved friend , sister and brother . All were seated in the church and suddenly, the pastor made a change in mood announcement that the weeding could not hold because the pregnancy test submitted to the church the previous day (Friday) showed that the wife to be was two weeks pregnant and for that reason the wedding could not hold in the church again . I am talking of society wedding that had in attendance the mighties in the society . The action of the couple ruined it and the church didn’t help matter by not applying “ forgive and forget “ . The service was later held at the reception where they were joined but the couple were all in tears thought the ceremony.

ADVICE
If you don’t want a scenario like this and you no fit hold body , you know what to use after all you guys are not kids .


(2)YOUR CHEF /CATERERS
These set of people are terrible most especially the evil dominated ones among them. Some will keep larger part of the meat they were supposed to serve. Some will even keep raw rice and yam. They leave most guests hungry and disappointed . Only the few lucky ones get food to eat . Some will even hide the food , reason why you see bride who couldn’t withstand the anger and disappointment on guests faces serving guest with her wedding gown on . Funny enough in this kind of situation you see some guest going home with extras in a nylon bag while some go home with sadness in their mind . Couple with this, is the poor arrangement of serving guests. Some caterers lack proper organisation and coordinating skills . More to these are some silly cooking mistakes- like too much or not enough salt, oil , water etc. This can be frustrating to both bride and groom on the wedding day.

ADVICE
make use of tested and tested caterers . also , no matter how trusted and tested ,they still need a reliable relative to monitor their activities before ,during and after party .


(3)YOUR PARENTS –
Some parents are just purely evil. They don’t have a bit of joy in them. Some bride fathers most especially, will not have a good day to display their craze until the day of their daughter’s wedding. They will complain of almost infinitesimal issues . I was in a wedding when the bride father was shouting at the top of his voice that the bride didn’t bring a complete bride load like her sister’s husband did some years ago and he insisted that the wedding will not continue until they bring the loads.. In fact, the lady couldn’t cry knowing fully well how her husband to be struggled for that wedding. They thought they could outsmart the man by not bringing a complete list of giving items .




ADVICE
If you know the nature of your father or mother, you need to talk to them during preparation and not only that, they need special prayers from your pastor or imam . Also, don’t try to outsmart them ,instead dialogue .


(4) MUSICIANS-
some are devil representatives at weddings , they will sing rubbish , looking for wealthy family members to spray them money up and down . Worst still, they will bring out dated instruments . Instead of getting cool sound, you get mixture of noise and crack voice.

ADVICE
Get better musician or D.J

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GENERAL ADVICE
IT’S BETTER TO HAVE A RUINED WEDDING THAN A RUINED MARRIAGE
 Written by :Mrdecent

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